A shiur on criticism, chinuch, and healthy relationships.
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[Music] good evening ladies and gentlemen tonight we're going to be giving the this past thursday night this past thursday night nine days did asha that almost happened but didn't but tonight hashem we're hoping to catch on an incredible itrazan that we find on these days that are extremely unique we'd like to be able to tell everyone that tomorrow night from the few rabbis left in brooklyn tomorrow night right after the reading of echa and the keynote we're reading of echa and the keynote we're going to be having the annual tish abba abdul rasha if mashiach doesn't come it's going to start tomorrow night at 9 right after tefillah so right after mamash right after our beat right after kinot [Music] um everyone drops to the floor we put out the lights and we're giving it in the shul by us and magen on east 9th between avenue t and u there is no lady section tomorrow and u there is no lady section tomorrow night because there's just not the room due to the fact that we're very careful with social distancing so the ladies we asked to watch at home the men come join with us pray with us the keynote if you're in brooklyn tomorrow night yeah 2066 east 9th and then right after that this speech to that speech tomorrow night tisha b'av speech will be live at 9 45. [Music] [Music] on the destruction of the vitamin because those who are with abel those who feel the destruction [Music] says he didn't forget me he didn't forget my pain and because of that i won't forget you and when it comes to the guilt you will be the first online you'll be in the front row so with those words broadcasting from lakewood new jersey from the office of one of my favorite
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- 31:12didn't come over as love it came over only as criticism and it weighs them down…
- 37:26says rabbiakov means to be able to teach the child now in his young years so…
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