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A lecture on guarding speech and avoiding lashon hara.
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good morning gentlemen we're on our 110th segment of the think before you speak spirit series and these are specifically dedicated for the yeshua dolan the shmira ma'alia so today's are on a very again on a very touchy level of sensitive when it comes to not reducing but engagements and that's the topic the title of today's halacha is the engagement where you suddenly get that phone call from a family member with a big mazel tov and he tells you your brother-in-law let's say tells you that his daughter just got engaged to listen to this boy and you say to yourself wait i know the boy's family and i know the father and then you start finding out that the father promised all types of promises to help support in the shidduch of the children and you know as a fact
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- 0:00good morning gentlemen we're on our 110th segment of the think before you speak spirit series…
- 0:38and these are specifically dedicated for the yeshua dolan the shmira ma'alia so today's are on…
- 1:08with a big mazel tov and he tells you your brother-in-law let's say tells you that…
- 1:39that this guy his promises and his commitments in all other areas of life were always…
- 2:09who breaks their promises right and left on prior commitments that you know firsthand is that…
- 2:39go through with the engagement if you know for sure for sure because i don't know…
- 3:09push you to double down and take all measures to make sure he delivers on his…
- 3:39that if they weren't yet engaged and they're only dating and you know that they're about…
- 4:09that this time he actually delivers his commitments we should only be that bring with it…
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