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A lecture on guarding speech and avoiding lashon hara.
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good morning gentlemen we're on our 108th segment of the think before you speak series with clarity these laws is that learn every morning and these Allah holds specifically are dedicated for the shmiramalya and the Yeshua gadala of Haim davidov and kaisa okay So today we're talking about sensitive information now I'd like to tell you a story that could be in the past you came across specifically at the time that you were dating you know where you're walking down the block and you bump into a neighbor who says hey didn't you go to this and this Yeshiva well actually my daughter is dating a guy from that Yeshiva I'd like to ask you a little bit information about him stop for a minute you think that the guy that they're asking about your friend you remember that he went through a very serious sickness in his younger teen years and you're thinking to yourself
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- 0:00good morning gentlemen we're on our 108th segment of the think before you speak series with…
- 0:30that learn every morning and these Allah holds specifically are dedicated for the shmiramalya and the…
- 1:01bump into a neighbor who says hey didn't you go to this and this Yeshiva well…
- 1:31is that something that I should say now I'm not talking about the type of sickness…
- 2:01life-threatening sickness you are allowed to offer the information even if they don't ask about it…
- 2:31bringing up an illness of the past a series illness of the past when giving over…
- 3:01over has to be for the Practical benefit for this person to consider going out with…
- 3:31you know that to this person the illness that your friend had in their past wouldn't…
- 4:02what then you're not allowed to tell them amazing and therefore we should always only have…
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