Shemirat Halashon Part 109 - Rabbi Duvi Bensoussan

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good morning gentlemen we're on our 109th segment of the think before you speak series lawsuit clarity a few stories the great khafiz sadiq with us in the morning before going to work amen and these are specifically dedicated for the shmira malian yeshua dolla of hayam davidov and hayasar okay so today we want to pick up on where we left yesterday we're dealing with sensitive information specifically in regarding to when people ask you about partnerships and shidduchim and this is very prevalent this happens all the time you get calls people ask you about different potential partners or shidduchim for children neighbors friends a guy that you went with to yeshiva so let me tell you this quick story where basically uh you were coming home and you bumped into an old friend from the neighborhood and he told you that his daughter is going out with a guy from your yeshiva and he said wow i know that guy and he says yeah i want to know um what is his level of learning how good is he in learning now you know that this particular guy that they picked on is a very nice guy but you don't know if his knowledge of learning is what they're looking for because you see already from the question that if the guy's asking he wants somebody that's really good and in your opinion this guy wasn't from the strongest guys or maybe he wasn't from the most serious guys in the

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1. 0:01good morning gentlemen we're on our 109th segment of the think before you speak series lawsuit…
2. 0:38with us in the morning before going to work amen and these are specifically dedicated for…
3. 1:41what is his level of learning how good is he in learning now you know that…
4. 2:12yeshiva when it came to learning okay at that point you could only turn around and…
5. 3:12has the ability to i'm not going to say test him those were the old ways…
6. 3:43a yeshiva boy at all what happens if you're approached by a guy on the street…
7. 4:44that he is claiming to be on now this is not a halacha that one takes…
8. 5:14if this guy is not shomer shabbat not shomer torah mitzvot and he's giving off the…
9. 6:15the big ones that you have to come across and say that although he's selling himself…
10. 6:45think of it in these terms your sister's a good religious girl she's dating a guy…

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