Sick Again - Shemirat Halashon Part 79 - Rabbi Duvi Bensoussan

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Good morning, gentlemen. We're on our 79th Shmirat Halashon segment of these wonderful Halachot of Think Before You Speak series. The laws of Shmirat Halashon with clarity and a few stories. Leilui Nishmat the great Chafetz Chaim Zecher Tzadik Lebracha Leilui Nishmat Reb Shmaryahu Yosef Chaim ben Reb Yaakov Yisrael Kanievsky Zecher Tzadik Lebracha Leilui Nishmat Louise Elizabeth Henriette and her children that passed with her in the fire. Ruach Hashem Tenichena Megan Eden as well for the great Zechut we learn these Halachot to be a great Zechut for our benei Chabura that sits and learns from 9:00 to 11:00 every day in the morning Kollel. Hashem should bless them with Shefa Beracha Vehatzlacha the Zechut of the Halachot. And they're also these Halachot are dedicated for the specific Shmira Ma'alya that Slacha Gedola Nesiyat Chen VeChaim David ben Chaim Solomon. Today's Halachot are titled Sick again. Now we're in the middle of the Halachot of Rechilus. Those are the Halachot where you're not allowed to tell somebody something about someone else that's going to cause them bad feelings between each other. You're not allowed to do something that would create bad feelings between two other Jews. These are the laws of Rechilus. Now Rabotai, in the past when we went through extensively the laws of Shmirat Halashon and not speaking Lashon Hara and also in the laws of Rechilus we've spoken a lot about the concept of having a good eye and always seeing good in people and harping on that good and building off of the good, ignoring the bad, seeing only good, building off of the good, and that's the key to good relationships. That's the key to beating all the yetzer hara involved of wanting to speak lashon

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1. 0:00Good morning, gentlemen. We're on our 79th Shmirat Halashon segment of these wonderful Halachot of Think…
2. 0:30with her in the fire. Ruach Hashem Tenichena Megan Eden as well for the great Zechut…
3. 1:33through extensively the laws of Shmirat Halashon and not speaking Lashon Hara and also in the…
4. 2:34You want to give the benefit of the doubt to someone else, and this person comes…
5. 3:05built on beautiful playgroups, the city of children. Here in Brooklyn, beautiful playgroups, wonderful teachers. But…
6. 4:06playgroup. And it's because the Mora isn't careful to make sure to really run the playgroup…
7. 5:07of the way you run your playgroup." So, the Mora turns around. And the Mora says,…
8. 5:39her child's getting sick so many times and her routine at home is really out of…
9. 6:40playgroup, she's just having a difficult with her kid at home." And this mother goes back…
10. 7:40Talking someone out of giving another the benefit of the doubt is also a violation for…

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