The Dust of Rechilut - Shemirat Halashon Part 91 - Rabbi Duvi Bensoussan

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Good morning, gentlemen. We're on our 91st segment of think before you speak, the laws of Lashon Hara with clarity and a few stories. L'ilui Nishmat the great Chofetz Chaim zechut tzaddik l'bracha. L'ilui Nishmat Rav Chaim Kanievsky zechut tzaddik l'bracha. L'ilui Nishmat Rav Zachariah Wallerstein yedid Yahovi zechut tzaddik l'bracha. As well l'ilui Nishmat Luz Elizabeth Harriett and her children that passed with her in the fire Ruach Hashem t'ni'chena b'gan Eden. These halachot should be a tremendous These halachot should be a tremendous hatzlacha and shmira and siyata d'shmaya for our b'nei chavura that sit and learn in our balabatim kollel in the morning from 9:00 to 11:00 every day. And these halachot should be specifically dedicated for hatzlacha gdola, shmira ma'aliya and siyat chein for Chaim Dovid ben Chaya Sarah. The title of these halachot this morning is the dust of rechilut. Today we're going to talk about avak rechilut. That's very interesting. You know, That's very interesting. You know, rechilut was what we've been speaking till now, where one person would tell someone else something about a third person that either said or did something against them, causing ill feelings between two Jews. Today we're talking about the dust of rechilut, avak rechilut, where he's not going to say directly to someone else something that a third person said or did bad against them, but it's going to be in a roundabout hinting way. hinting way. That is called the dust of rechilut, which is also prohibited. Let's get a good example. Let's open up with a story. So, uh our friend Reuven walks out one day to the street and he bumps into his neighbor Shimon. And Shimon says, "Hey, Reuven, I hear that your daughter just started shidduchim. I hear she's looking for a a wonderful guy." So, Reuven looks at Shimon and he smiles. He says, "Wow, where did you

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1. 0:00Good morning, gentlemen. We're on our 91st segment of think before you speak, the laws of…
2. 0:31These halachot should be a tremendous hatzlacha and shmira and siyata d'shmaya for our b'nei chavura…
3. 1:01That's very interesting. You know, rechilut was what we've been speaking till now, where one person…
4. 1:33hinting way. That is called the dust of rechilut, which is also prohibited. Let's get a…
5. 2:04smiles. He says, "Wow, where did you hear that from? We started under the QT. It…
6. 2:35And you know, they were asking Levi about you, your neighbor." Reuven says, "Really? Wow, I…
7. 3:05That That's the way he reacted to a shidduch phone call about my daughter when asked…
8. 3:35that he came over with that type of an answer, it sounds like that he's hiding…
9. 4:05thought we were on good terms. That's avak rechilut. And that's forbidden 100% like rechilut. And…
10. 4:37outright rechilut. Avak rechilut is when they kind of danced around it and only hinted and…

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