Husband & Wife - Shemirat Halashon Par 41

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The opening of this shiur, in Rabbi Duvi Bensoussan’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

good morning everybody this is the forty-first segment of think before you speak series the laws of shemination with clarity few stories and her children that passed in the fire hashem these are dedicated for the yeshua and the abner and claude israel and these halakota are specifically dedicated for the great shemitah and yusuf for him today the name the title of our halakhot husband and wife now benny and ilana both run a store together ilan is the manager and benny does basically everything else behind the scenes to run a good business turns out that benny walks in one day and he turns to his wife ilana and he says to her i just saw a few people walk out the store i know those people i really hope you didn't sell them on credit they are completely untrustworthy they're known to be untrustworthy and i know as a fact they're untrustworthy please tell me you didn't you didn't sell them on credit you'd extend them credit is he allowed to say that is that considered la shonhara well for clarity let's be clear a person is not allowed to speak lashonara to their wife a wife cannot speak lashon to their husband many people think well their spouse it's okay it's not between one and as their spouse is absolutely forbidden however in this specific case benny is actually allowed to tell his wife ilana i hope you did not sell them on credit because these people are untrustworthy that is a constructive purpose for the sake of the business and therefore when it comes to any constructive purpose

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1. 0:01good morning everybody this is the forty-first segment of think before you speak series the laws…
2. 0:31yusuf for him today the name the title of our halakhot husband and wife now benny…
3. 1:02didn't sell them on credit they are completely untrustworthy they're known to be untrustworthy and i…
4. 1:32husband many people think well their spouse it's okay it's not between one and as their…
5. 2:03that is for the good of the business then he's allowed to tell his wife these…
6. 3:06it's interesting you know when it comes to this concept of husbands and wives engaging in…
7. 3:36the issues that are going on in his family between him and his brothers or maybe…
8. 4:07knows every single person out there that they're in the fight with and why to the…
9. 4:38actually fuels the fight she's going to come now fighting for you and she's going to…
10. 5:09it's extremely unwise to reveal to a spouse all the people that you're in a fight…

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