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Rechilut With Relatives - Shemirat Halashon Part 88 - Rabbi Duvi Bensoussan

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Rabbi Duvi Bensoussan

A lesson on the halachic and ethical dangers of rechilut within family circles.

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Good morning, gentlemen. We're on our 88th segment of the think before you speak series. The laws of Sefirat Halashon with clarity l'ilui nishmat the Hafetz Chaim, zecher tzaddik l'bracha. L'ilui nishmat the great Reb Chaim Kanievsky, zecher tzaddik l'bracha. L'ilui nishmat yedidi Reb Zechariah Wallerstein, zecher tzaddik l'bracha. Ah. L'ilui L'ilui nishmat Luz Elizabeth Henriette and her children that passed away in the fire, ruach Hashem tenichena b'Gan Eden. These halachot should be a great zechut v'hatzlacha, shmira, siyata d'Shmaya for our bnei chavura that learn every morning in the ba'alei batim kolel. And it should also be specifically a great shmira m'alya. These halachot should be a shmira m'alya and a zechut gadol, hatzlacha gedola for Chaim David ben Chaya Sarah. Okay, the halacha today is rechilut with relatives. So, could you imagine guy walks up to you and says, "Hey, I have regards to you for you from your brother. I was in Lakewood yesterday and I went by his store. And I really thought that he had great stuff with great prices. And I'm telling you, he's running a great operation." And you answer back to him, "Yeah, it seems that everyone in Lakewood loves his store." And then the guy says, "Well, yeah, I don't know about everyone. You know, I I do have a neighbor that went to his store

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  1. 0:01Good morning, gentlemen. We're on our 88th segment of the think before you speak series. The…
  2. 0:33d'Shmaya for our bnei chavura that learn every morning in the ba'alei batim kolel. And it…
  3. 1:04brother. I was in Lakewood yesterday and I went by his store. And I really thought…
  4. 1:35and he was complaining up and down. I don't know what the guy's problem was. He…
  5. 2:05on absolute rekhilut. Because now the need jerk reaction of any relative of any brother listening…
  6. 2:36be extra careful extra super sensitive that never to say anything that someone else said about…
  7. 3:07of rekhilut. There'll be absolute hard and bad feelings between the person listening that you're talking…
  8. 3:37laws of shmirat halashon. We're very protective when it comes to our own siblings. When it…

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