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The Great Life Lesson Of Status vs Stature The Secret Behind The Steipler Wealth

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Rabbi Duvi Bensoussan

A profound discussion on the value of stature over status.

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fascinating Midrash. Midrash tells us Abraham Avinu he had something called an Eshal. An Eshal was like a inn / tent / hotel / soup kitchen. All in one. And as kids we learned that Abraham Avinu his Ohel was open from all different sides. was open from all different sides. It was the most inviting place on Earth. But not just in the way of its doors being open to everybody. But when you came in it was such a Seudah, such a feast that was waiting for everyone to come in to do with them Hachnasat Orchim. It's amazing the system the way Abraham Avinu worked. He used that incredible ambiance for his Kiruv work. He put out the best king's food. best king's food. The best bread. People would come from far and wide. Travelers would come to stay by Abraham Avinu. And then while they're eating you know what they say. The best way to a man's heart is through his stomach. So while they're eating Abraham Avinu would schmooze them up. And they would start talking back and forth. And then Abraham Avinu at the end when the guy would turn around and say, "What do I owe you?" So Abraham Avinu would say, "Well, that depends. depends. If you believe that God gives food and he's the one who provides and everything belongs to him then you don't owe me anything. You owe the originator the owner of the food, Hashem." And if that's the case here's a Birkat Hamazon book. Start saying Birkat Hamazon and thank God for the food that he gave you. But if don't believe in God, if you believe that man

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  1. 0:00fascinating Midrash. Midrash tells us Abraham Avinu he had something called an Eshal. An Eshal was
  2. 4:03that the food belongs to Hashem. So, all they need to do is thank him by
  3. 8:39"Take a look. I captured Abraham. I captured Abraham Avinu. Now, where is his god? He
  4. 13:13humbly have to read the Midrash. You're missing out on the goods, guys. I'm telling you.
  5. 17:49Abraham money and made him wealthy. This is not the way I say, "No, thank you."
  6. 22:28But then behind closed doors, you find out the guy is the biggest maneuver on two
  7. 26:40Sometimes they can be used for status. To try to be make me famous or to
  8. 31:20son of the last Kohen Gadol, and they they they decided to give it to him
  9. 35:57we're all standing there by Neilah. This is the moment. Like this is This is the
  10. 40:39What an empty life. What Shkiah? Says Abraham Avinu to the king of Sodom, "You want

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