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A lecture on guarding speech and avoiding lashon hara.
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good morning everybody this is the 104th segment of the think before you speak series that sit and learn together every morning hashem shall bless them with these are specifically dedicated for the smear malia okay when it comes to business decisions you wouldn't believe how many halachot apply both in the area of shemination and especially when it comes to remember means that you either did or said something that's going to cause one jew to hate or to feel bad feelings against another jew that's richie so here let me throw at you this great story so you have a uh mother and daughter right the uh the title of this class is the wedding gown right so you have a mother and daughter who comes in to this bridal store and the girl just got engaged and she's on cloud nine and this is the first thing that mother and daughter is doing for her wedding they want to secure a magnificent gown so they come into this bridal rental and she spends an hour or two going through all the different gowns and she finds one that was perfect and she begs her mother please it's a little bit on the expensive side but you get married once and the mother says okay you got it the mother reaches into her pocketbook to pull out a check to put a deposit on
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- 0:00good morning everybody this is the 104th segment of the think before you speak series…
- 0:33that sit and learn together every morning hashem shall bless them with these are specifically dedicated…
- 1:03means that you either did or said something that's going to cause one jew to hate…
- 2:04this wedding gown for her daughter and she realizes she forgot her check at home so…
- 2:34if you come back before i close today i close today at six o'clock if you…
- 3:34try it on for fit she lets him try it on mistake she comes out and…
- 4:04pressured and pressure gives in and she says okay it looks too good on you i'll…
- 4:35running in the store double parked on coney island who comes running in the store the…
- 5:37so the store owner could only say someone else took it they pressured me in it…
- 6:07and the person that took it did not pressure you into giving it to them you…
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