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The Inquirer - Shemirat Halashon Part 16

338 views · Nov 25, 2021

Rabbi Duvi Bensoussan

A Torah shiur on the importance of asking questions before speaking.

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  1. 0:00Good morning, gentlemen. We're on our 16th segment of the Think Before You Speak series, Shmiras…
  2. 0:31Now, ladies and gentlemen, we all know that in our times, one of the most common…
  3. 1:03business partner or a potential Shidduch for yourself or your child or maybe a potential employee,…
  4. 1:34Nor are you allowed to turn to people that dislike the person you're inquiring about to…
  5. 2:05Rather, when you state clearly, "Hey, I'm thinking of going to business with this person. Could…
  6. 2:35value, and you could assume and maybe suspect that it might be true, and then from…
  7. 3:05Keep it specifically to the facts. And as well, when you're being asked about someone, do…
  8. 3:36middos?" Let it be pointed information, not general descriptions that can go anywhere and we fringe…
  9. 4:07of such lightning speed communication where all day constantly in all different venues of communication, we're…
  10. 4:37careful not just who you ask, not just what you say, but careful how you say…

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