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How To Connect To Teens Amazing Story - Rabbi Duvi

Rabbi Duvi Bensoussan

A meaningful approach to connecting with and understanding teens.

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The opening of this shiur, in Rabbi Duvi Bensoussan’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

a few years ago I used to drive back and forth from Lakewood to Brooklyn for about 16 years to the Safar Community where barem Hashem blessed me with a wonderful Sho and a school and we used to go back and forth from Lakewood I would go every day and my wife and kids would come in every Shabbat one Friday afternoon the minivan was all packed up and ready to leave to Brooklyn and suddenly I get a call RB Brooklyn and suddenly I get a call RB David nobody calls me RB David Rabbi D I don't know where that came but Rd nobody calls me R I said yeah who who's this he says this is harav so and so I said whoa I remembered I know the name don't know him but he's a rash of Yeshiva I said har uh you know um how can I help uh I try to use every yish word I uh I try to use every yish word I knew you know what do I owe the honor to this call Ravid listen there's a b that's been out on the streets for three years he's been to therapist and psychiatrists and even ason him ribed of it he hasn't kept chavas in 3 years you think you can meet him for a few minutes if I send him over to your house in 15 minutes minutes you think you could sit and talk with him I said

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  1. 0:01a few years ago I used to drive back and forth from Lakewood to Brooklyn for
  2. 1:33you could sit and talk with him I said Riva listen I uh I I don't
  3. 3:08I don't know send them over 15 minutes later there's a knock on my front door
  4. 4:40he said oh really he said yeah come on in we come in we sit down
  5. 6:42sentence and they'll tell you everything they'll tell you and that's great but the truth either
  6. 8:16basement no matter what you hear don't call the cops it's okay everything's going to be
  7. 9:49know so finally I'm racking my brains and I thought to myself and I said whoa
  8. 11:55way he was so good and so taken that literally he went back on his back
  9. 13:27David what did you say to my son I said said uh you really want to
  10. 15:03you talked to him about the Reb shalam no not yet he spoke them about chabas

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