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Third Party - Shemirat Halashon Part 71

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Rabbi Duvi Bensoussan

Rabbi Duvi Bensoussan discusses the role of third parties in harmful speech.

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good morning everybody this morning is the 71st segment of the think before you speak series laws of shame with clarity few stories will also be dedicated to the great shemirah and siata ishmael of our bane who sit and learn every day from 9 to 11 in the morning kolel as well these are dedicated for the today's titled third party victim so i want to share with you an interesting story you walked in one day to show and right after davening a lot of times guys start crowding around the breakfast table and everyone has that little morning schmooze before everyone runs off to work sometimes those schmoozes are updates of all the little uh lashing horror politics that are going on in the community you know there's always some guy that needs to update everybody in case anyone didn't miss case has for shalom someone missed some dirt on somebody so we got to bring everybody up to speed and now is the time that we got to get your day going of course so they want to just quickly give you the bottom line summary synopsis of what's going on so that he makes sure your day starts off on the wrong leg and here he is and he's telling over to everybody how uh another person you know will call him and shivan is by the breakfast table telling everybody how shimon runs his business in such a back-handed uh crooked way and all the tricks that he claims shimon does when he rips people off day after day as he runs his business and you're sitting there and you're hearing then go to town saying all the different ways that siobhan rips off people in his business in a very crooked way

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  1. 0:00good morning everybody this morning is the 71st segment of the think before you speak series…
  2. 0:30shemirah and siata ishmael of our bane who sit and learn every day from 9 to…
  3. 1:00interesting story you walked in one day to show and right after davening a lot of…
  4. 2:01is by the breakfast table telling everybody how shimon runs his business in such a back-handed…
  5. 2:31now you know and if you go to shemon and tell him the rant that revenge…
  6. 3:31totally smashed shimon's way of running business letting everybody know the different backhanded stuff he does…
  7. 4:03says that is also freya you see because what's going to happen now levy is friends…
  8. 4:33in this case shimon that at that moment retroactively will again have shim on rauven for…
  9. 5:34going to tell his relatives what this guy said about them and that's going to be…
  10. 6:04rebuke shivan and shimon will listen to him and thereby there's a constructive person you know…

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