When Do I Get Divorced? When Do I Stay Married...

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The opening of this shiur, in Rabbi YY Jacobson’s own words— taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

And I chores Y by Jacobson. It is a dream of mine. Anybody that works closely with me knows that he is a person that I always said if I could get in a chair, I just want to ask him some questions. And that's what this was. This was me sitting with him and asking him the hard-hitting questions that you guys have been asking me. The topic that we chose was choosing to stay together for the kids. Is that the right thing? Is that the wrong thing? We touched a little bit on emotional intimacy in relationships, how to develop that, what to do in the first year of marriage where it's the most difficult as a new couple. We also touched on a little bit about what to do when you want to get divorced but you don't want to affect your children. What that might look like for you. It was amazing. And I have to like process how I feel about it. But I feel good about it. I have to process like that that just happened and that is a thing because I don't know if you guys know when you have this like dream of something in your head that you hope for and then it actually happens. It's like wait was that real? Did that that actually happen? It did. It actually happened. Episode one. Um yeah, I hope to do more of these. I hope you guys will join me for the ride and I hope you guys enjoy this. Welcome to the first episode of Tor TMI, Torah

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1. 0:31And I chores Y by Jacobson. It is a dream of mine. Anybody that works closely…
2. 5:43things within themselves? You know, things that are coming up and that are being challenged and…
3. 10:49space and of course with support of people they trust, mentors, friends, etc. professionals and say…
4. 15:53that when it came to their children, you know, they were working together. Whether it's a…
5. 21:36narcissism, borderline, whatever these things is very serious and I'm not ready to take any accountability.…
6. 26:39scientific reason. >> No, I want your I I have >> I don't know if anything…
7. 31:43bring wine or don't forget to lock the door. She's completely innocent. She just wants me…
8. 37:22educated consumer. You're not here to do the the therapist a favor. You're not here to…
9. 42:25one thing and I guess this is I'm not I don't really I don't think this…
10. 47:28and don't throw it on anybody else. >> Right. Take ownership. Exactly. And just to also…

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