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When Do I Get Divorced? When Do I Stay Married... | Rabbi YY Jacobson & Lauren Hofstatter

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Rabbi YY Jacobson

When Do I Get Divorced? When Do I Stay Married... | Rabbi YY Jacobson & Lauren Hofstatter

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  1. 0:31And I chores Y by Jacobson. It is a dream of mine. Anybody that works closely…
  2. 5:43things within themselves? You know, things that are coming up and that are being challenged and…
  3. 10:49space and of course with support of people they trust, mentors, friends, etc. professionals and say…
  4. 15:53that when it came to their children, you know, they were working together. Whether it's a…
  5. 21:36narcissism, borderline, whatever these things is very serious and I'm not ready to take any accountability.…
  6. 26:39scientific reason. >> No, I want your I I have >> I don't know if anything…
  7. 31:43bring wine or don't forget to lock the door. She's completely innocent. She just wants me…
  8. 37:22educated consumer. You're not here to do the the therapist a favor. You're not here to…
  9. 42:25one thing and I guess this is I'm not I don't really I don't think this…
  10. 47:28and don't throw it on anybody else. >> Right. Take ownership. Exactly. And just to also…

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