Panama #5: Building That Great Jewish Home - A Presentation on Shalom Bayis

What’s said in this shiur

The opening of this shiur, in Dr. Jack Cohen’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

[Music] foreign [Music] never say to your spouse I hate you the beginning of wisdom is Percival tells us it's silence marriage can be either the life rather the source of life's greatest joy shalom the root of much misery it depends what you make of it you can even become tragedy right now in my in my cell phone is a WhatsApp message that I get from a guy who started seven years ago divorce and every two days I get a divorce and every two days I get a letter showing me the latest suit that is suing his ex-wife I told him seven years ago for a thousand dollars I'll get you out of this maybe he spent already a million dollars and he's not he's not finished so if marriage is not done correctly it can lead to a lot of pain there's a rabbi in Muncie New York there's a rabbi in Muncie New York called Rabbi frying Waxman and he tells an amazing story one of his neighbors the song is getting married he had a blemish on his skin and he needed to see a dermatologist he had three weeks before the wedding and it wasn't nice looking so the mother said we're going to send you to the best dermatologist in Manhattan we got to fix the problem I you can't get married this way so they make an appointment with one of so they make an appointment with one of the top dermatologists in Manhattan he's an ashkenaz guy not religious so the men the boys 23 years old he's sitting in the waiting room and he's like very tame Innocent by the way if I speak too fast or you don't understand anything just raise your hand I will explain so he's sitting there he has some schnabok in his hand and suddenly a rock star walks in

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1. 0:01[Music] foreign [Music] never say to your spouse I hate you the beginning of wisdom is…
2. 5:09you to the other side of turkey and from there you can take an airplane to…
3. 10:53she wrote The Garden of the Moon I met him in 2006. I was lucky that…
4. 16:33from that day on it was hard after she says to her husband do me a…
5. 21:54I'm gonna skip some things if you give me okay people ask me to Define love…
6. 27:32to give to the other person before you you have that of letting your spouse go…
7. 33:14loyal to you so that's why it's so important I tell young couples when you have…
8. 38:18in this world you should bring up your family together and work together you'll be together…
9. 43:59wrote this marriage never say to your spouse I hate you it's like taking Lalique Crystal…
10. 49:37and if you have married children okay number one parents of the not to ever get…

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