Channah Cohen: The Crisis of Experience

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The opening of this shiur, in Rabbi Yussie Zakutinsky’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

them under my own name I felt like this sense of either or embarrassment or there was also this sense of people would read it and look at me as either like like it's worse than we thought there was another sense of people using my own frustration as like a point of Judgment of saying like oh he's jaded he's cynical already like he doesn't want to get married etc etc and there is one article that I published that actually circulated quite a bit and I eventually published it I think on like the OU website but I published it under a pen name I think published it under a pen name I think the pen name I used was Mordechai liner which is the name of the rebbe of ishbits but I used his pen name always looking for good head names and it happens to be I'm not gonna point fingers our last name bashevkin is used as a pen name by a very notable Rabbi in the community if you've ever seen any of the books bashevkin published that is a pen name and he's not subtle about it the covers have like huge words by Chef it's a big orange book I know the actual author as I'm sure some of our listeners

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