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Communication In Dating

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Dr. Jack Cohen

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but I want to speak about communication one of the things that I do is I meet with people all day long as a dating coach and a dating mentor to try to help people succeed in dating much of the problems that I see are really related to the fact that people's communication skills are terrible and they don't have a plan in terms of what they plan on speaking about in their dates especially if they don't know how to communicate effectively and give praise effectively now we know that it's not a good thing to be able to praise someone directly but you need to learn how to praise in but you need to learn how to praise in action you need to learn how to praise in accomplishment so I'm gonna give you some some discussions on that tonight and we'll share a little bit of that because without proper communication it's not possible to build what's called an emotional connection an emotional connection is what allows the dating to go from just plain dating the engagement in marriage it's the person understanding and feeling that they know who you are oftentimes when I hear people tell me it's okay but I'm just not feeling it I know that there's a problem in the communication I know that one of the

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