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Love Your Friend as You Love Yourself – Rabbi Dovid Gottlieb

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Rabbi Dovid Gottlieb

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We're on. >> We're on. We're live. >> We're on. Okay. Um, when I first went to college in 1853 or thereabouts, um, it was assumed that we were all illiterate, which wasn't too far from the truth. And therefore, we all had to take a an English composition course. And we had a required history course to learn about the world. The course was conducted by the The course was conducted by the professor reading from his book. >> I guess assuming we couldn't read. So he read from his book. I'll never forget was Edgar Johnson. And he wrote he read about the god of the Hebrews, the god of vengeance and punishment and uh storming from the sky to krill's enemies. And then the subsequent religion of Christianity was a religion of love and Christianity was a religion of love and support and companionship and all the rest. He omitted as many people omit the fact that the biblical verse should love your friend as yourself is in the Hebrew Bible. Christians didn't invent that. They took it from us. And somehow somewhere the words got transformed into love your neighbor as yourself. That has absolutely nothing to do with the Hebrew. The fact that you do with the Hebrew. The fact that you share a common wall is not the reason why you should love somebody or that he dwells down the block. That's not it. The word in Hebrew is rehea. The word for neighbor is shahim in Hebrew. Uh and something we mentioned last week when the Talmud says that which is hateful to you don't do to your [clears throat] certainly means friend. Rashi on the

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  1. 0:06We're on. >> We're on. We're live. >> We're on. Okay. Um, when I first went
  2. 4:17Let me try to explain to you what Rovesta means. um and we should stop and
  3. 8:24the audience and then it's turn for your child to speak and your child stands there
  4. 12:31have your presence in the world. Wasn't loving your friend like yourself supposed to escape being
  5. 16:45that verse is [snorts] to love um is to invest in them. Um, now there's an
  6. 21:25you know, it's just not practical, Rabbi, to to uh you know, to ask me to
  7. 25:31angry at his child. That was elegant Piskin is first of all in a certain sense
  8. 29:36I'm that one from 14 years ago." "What happened to you?" He's wearing a black hat.
  9. 33:40the wrong values and they're trash and you're 19 and you know everything. You've learned it.
  10. 37:46information so he's really benefiting me but that's not my total motivation my total motivation is

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