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10 Commandments of Marriage adapted from Rav Avigdor Miller: 1st Commandment: Be Realistic

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Rabbi Avigdor Miller

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One of the most important and monumental works in dating and marriage were the ten commandments of dating and marriage which were put together by my esteemed teacher of almost 30 years, Rabbi Vic Miller. They're so life-changing that in one 2-hour session recently with a couple whose marriage was literally on its last legs after only 2 years of marriage, it completely transformed their marriage literally overnight. And now they're living in Ghana. Why? Because of the amazing principles taught in these ten commandments. Let's start with commandment number one. In commandment number one, Ravik Miller teaches that is to be realistic in

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