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A lesson on understanding the limitations of resolutions and how to truly change behavior.
A 15 min mussar & chizuk shiur by Charlie Harary. Like every video on Lehallel, it was judged and approved under the Lehallel law before it ever appeared — no unreviewed result is ever shown.


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The opening of this shiur, in Charlie Harary’s own words— taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.
[Music] hello everybody welcome to the boost happy secular new year january i think it's the third monday it's the first work day first week day from the new year happy new year everybody you know it's so important to i find at least this is my opinion any chance you have to grow is jump on it some people their new year is a religious new year some people in new year's account the new year it doesn't matter i mean it matters but for growth whatever you can get on get on whatever bandwagon's available for growth within reason take it new year's is a great opportunity to grow it's a time of newness of freshness of restart people have a different mentality there's something about the end in the beginning that is a window of growth we've been talking a lot about this idea of plenty of famine of thinking of using time to predict understand figure out how to get stronger and new years is a great opportunity for someone to figure out especially in a part of their lives that is aligned with the calendar to figure out how to get better to take a chance at starting from scratch to start a relationship off from scratch to make amends to make a turn to start something to make something better new years it's the beginning of a new year and whenever there's a beginning of anything it's a new opportunity so what i wanted to do is i did this last year also it's a line what we've been talking about it's a little bit of a digression
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- 0:08[Music] hello everybody welcome to the boost happy secular new year january i think it's the…
- 1:11a window of growth we've been talking a lot about this idea of plenty of famine…
- 2:42or they write it down or they tell people or they just sort of like think…
- 4:14so he was giving me advice this is great this is giving me advice um how…
- 5:15december everyone's making these resolutions now it's january now it's time to do it now it's…
- 6:45a place that makes you eat wrong or do this or do that sometimes you get…
- 8:19so we have to begin and i want to do this week i want to begin…
- 9:20and it's it's working we're we're not happy but our brain's functioning with it right i'm…
- 10:55i really want to do what i'm doing which is whatever work harder to make more…
- 12:26but the problem is is that our brains like yeah i don't know what you're talking…
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- Mussar & Chizuk — 15 min, by Charlie Harary
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