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A Couple Forgives a Bochur Who Ruined Their Wedding

97K views · Sep 12, 2021

Rabbi Yoel Gold

A story of forgiveness before Yom Kippur.

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[Music] governor tamar scheinberg got engaged last year hanukkah and they were scheduled to get married right before pay sachan nissan they invited extended family and friends and they were super excited to celebrate their upcoming wedding but then everything changed the world was hit with coronavirus two weeks before pouring the government started to talk about a lockdown in israel and kostakovic me and my wife and the whole family decided instead of doing the family decided instead of doing the classroom hey nissan we will do it earlier they rented a smaller venue and they invited only immediate family members parents grandparents and siblings they followed all the guidelines and they were determined to do whatever they can to make it work under the current circumstances of like my wife was the white gown me with the suit thai now i thought that we now come to the cops they would like treat me as a hustler and cow like oh here are you okay so let's talk it's let's see if everything is okay and well let me go but they didn't a lot of cops came soldiers surrounded us big guns the cops force them to stand outside by the building over there as they start threatening everybody get out go home otherwise we'll slap you with a 5 000 shackle fine everybody immediately dispersed we stand with like an hour and a half so by the time the cops left the wedding was ruined there was nobody there for shava brachus david was forced to stand on the street asking passerby if they can come in so he could have a minion for chevy brookes at his own wedding to make matters worse the cops gave each of

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  1. 0:01[Music] governor tamar scheinberg got engaged last year hanukkah and they were scheduled to get married…
  2. 0:31family decided instead of doing the classroom hey nissan we will do it earlier they rented…
  3. 1:38everybody immediately dispersed we stand with like an hour and a half so by the time…
  4. 2:08make matters worse the cops gave each of them a 5 000 shekel fine so now…
  5. 3:19fast forward seven months you kipper this year was sunday night it was friday afternoon david…
  6. 3:49that he was the guy who ruined our wedding he was the guy who called the…
  7. 4:51and they just couldn't get themselves to say the words and really mean it we forgive…
  8. 5:22as hard as it was they were ready david called his father and told his father…
  9. 6:35so her sister came out screaming tamar was in a car accident tamar was in a…
  10. 7:07[Applause] [Music] the fact that baby and mom are okay is nothing short of a miracle…

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