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Gestures Speak Volumes - R' Joey Haber

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Netzoir

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The theme is that words do matter but sometimes it's even just nuances and body language that matters. Rashan Kamineski was in the Bangal County. I heard this from Singer. He said Rashan Kaneski was in a bungalow county. He was standing by the swarshank and he saw a little boy. Maybe the boy was 7 years old. He was carrying kumashim. You could imagine maybe he's carrying 20 kumashim trying to put them back on the shelves. is trying to be a good kid and he sees the guy is a little intimidated and he trips at all the go flying. Now you can trips at all the go flying. Now you can imagine everyone responded. If you're the base managers and all the subani go flying, everybody jumps out of their seat to go get the subi kamki on the other hand started talking to the boy. How old are you? Who's your father? Which camp are you in? Which school do you go to? Oh, I know your father. I know your grandfather and he's making the field. Boy felt good and he walked away. Kami said to people, you wonder what just happened? He says before we have to kiss the we have to kiss the kid. It's so easy to jump for

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  1. 0:06The theme is that words do matter but sometimes it's even just nuances and body language…
  2. 0:37trips at all the go flying. Now you can imagine everyone responded. If you're the base…
  3. 1:07kiss the kid. It's so easy to jump for the kumashim and that seems like the…
  4. 1:38me, "How you doing?" She says, "And I responded. I don't know what I was thinking,…
  5. 2:09matter. But sometimes it's a little little facial expression, an eye roll or a flick of…
  6. 2:41comment. Words are hurtful, but sometimes a small little body language could be just as hurtful.…

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