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The opening of this shiur, in Avi Fishoff — TWiSTED Parenting’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

says the many people in their own eyes they consider themselves a really big but at the end of the day the children themselves will deny their expertise many times the Deep analysis and the concepts of their ideas of proper education were just merely according to their own tea they had their own ideas that they came up with comfortably influenced by his own natural tendencies and the surrounding environments so we have to be careful that we don't develop ideas that are not proven and given to us by our next idea he talks about regular at the outset of the educational process strict discipline may be necessary the educator or the parent may need to temporarily assume the role of a policeman en forcing compliance however this is not a part of the process called it is merely the means to create the proper climate for real education to take place he says that there are many people RAB they come in and they say look at my classroom everybody sits straight and everybody is listening and right they're scared to move and this he right they're scared to move and this he says they're very good at preparing the climate for education but that is not education people think that's the end that's just the beginning that's the introduction nothing to do with he says it is especially evil to hit a

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1. 0:01says the many people in their own eyes they consider themselves a really big but at…
2. 3:15video while they're hitting their kids and say you see how we hit calmly without any…
3. 6:58backfire it's abuse you are treating him this way merely because you are stronger than he…
4. 10:07situation who I am and my feelings you lose any possible chance to influence the child…
5. 13:39say you got to get hold of your own self of your own everybody says get…
6. 16:42corruption inside of him it's only the Vite that can improve the problem of the corruption…
7. 20:32when we were in the we were slaves see we're at the bottom of the world…
8. 23:39love you forever that's not an incentive to sin it's an incentive to do our best…
9. 27:21even this is the if this is the that is giving us the feeling that you're…
10. 30:30am hem under normal circumstances I don't go to MIM to save my child I go…

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