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The opening of this shiur, in Avi Fishoff — TWiSTED Parenting’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

[Music] what i do is i i give guidance to parents and families when they have a situation that is very extreme i don't deal with regular problems i don't deal with regular [Music] of the many issues that there are that are still in the category of normal education normal i deal with crisis with parents and families who have someone in the family who is not functioning properly and who's not happy not even in the least bit and who's struggling with things that unfortunately exist today that didn't exist 30 years ago you know it's unbelievable 40 years ago 50 years ago we nobody saw this coming and um pretty much people had children and the children pretty much behaved and we didn't have to worry about all the mental health issues if if our children would survive if our children would thrive you know it was it was taken for granted uh and today there's so much mental health issues and so many kids that are misunderstood um it's it's a very very big shame and it's happening to the most wonderful families like we have over here such as such few beautiful people and um to thousands of them and a lot of the there was a lot of confusion 30 years ago 25 years ago 20 years ago as this thing started building and people thought oh it's got to be dysfunctional families and then we realize no that's not true and then it's got to be only like whatever and it's it's everybody the nicest families have children who are struggling in in ways that it didn't exist 20 30 years ago and along with that comes a tremendous amount of confusion how should we deal with this

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1. 0:00[Music] what i do is i i give guidance to parents and families when they have…
2. 2:41patient or not support the patient and how to how to deal and now in addition…
3. 5:15then the self-esteem goes down and then guess what happens the behavior gets worse so they…
4. 7:54you didn't have to worry about uh what what happened you know like how many how…
5. 10:35enough to know that we lost one of our kids this week one of the worst…
6. 13:18and she thought she's going to be married to asov right she said i'm going to…
7. 15:57thankful that you don't need this level of treatment because it's not healthy it's like chemo…
8. 18:33willing to learn but until you find a better hospital a better crisis center a better…
9. 21:12throw you off so the first reason you're here is to give the parents and the…
10. 23:50needed it you're just a special to your parents and if you needed it your parents…

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