Rabbi Shimon Russell - Attachement disorder (3)

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The opening of this shiur, in Avi Fishoff — TWiSTED Parenting’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

to me you see my passion on this is this is not just another cute Russia or concept this is it this is the drug and I feel myself I can feel myself tear up as I say to you because I know the truth of it I've watched too many homes and families and I've watched those who did this who I've watched those who did this who worked this system and they see the results I saw it with my children the Roshan returned mrs. despite what they went through I can tell you it works and I believe this is this is our job this is our god-given job so everyone write this down for words and then I'm going to explain them in detail they are the to explain them in detail they are the four asses they are safe secure seen and soothed soo th e D suit safe secure scene ensue see s EE and Mahesh's you remember first of all I'm going to cancel this again and again as we go forward they are the four asses of attachment to create four asses of attachment to create healthy attachments we need to work on the four essence to repair damaged attachments we need to work on the four asses and I will explain them they're not complicated safe let's start with see the child has a right to grow up in a home where they feel safe in generic general concepts and terms safety means general concepts and terms safety means thing is like I'm not going to be hurt or abused at nighttime the windows and doors will be locked I'll be safe from people intruding and hurting me I'll be safe from siblings hurting them unnecessarily drop in a traumatic way I'll be safe from parents venting their own unresolved issues that

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1. 0:00to me you see my passion on this is this is not just another cute Russia…
2. 3:43research that I utilized to describe what I called learning trauma learning trauma that occurs to…
3. 7:23that intellectual use I call it psychological abuse sexual abuse and spiritual abuse all five of…
4. 11:38behavior that's emotional abuse replacer see once upon a time one look we have one look…
5. 15:16standing there weeping away where you have to light early so you can redo your makeup…
6. 19:36child in crisis that I Drive my parents were sugar which I know I do despite…
7. 23:23seen safe secure seen they need to be seen that means every single child we have…
8. 27:01ear something unique and special about their potential about your greatness if your child does something…
9. 31:15neighborhood who hurt them things will happen to our children and it's so easy for us…
10. 34:52me I don't know what it is your size or shape you look fantastic to me…

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