The foundation of all true Chinuch ( Ohayon's Residence)

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The opening of this shiur, in Rabbi David Elmaleh’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

Thank you. First of all, we wanted first of all to say that uh we have a lot of the organizers. So this is uh you know if they say that anyone they get the they make you work for your money. So and his wife they always want more shim and more shim and they're always the first ones also that they want to do it in their house. So that they should always have a lot of to continue having a lot of also um a lot of from their children. >> So the fact that we're all here already in itself we have to say why because that means that we have a question that we want to ask ourselves. How do we educate our children? And the truth is something very personal is it's very difficult to give such shim because there's a lot of >> can we for my daughter >> and they just sent me a name. Okay. So the question that we going to ask ourselves is this. We have an incredible gift. What's the gift gave us? A gift which is our children. How do we know that they're a gift? We remember the famous story with Balaness and his wife Brurya. Balines had his two children that they passed away. And what happened was is brutia didn't want to tell her husband because if she's going to tell him so abruptly it might have some negative effect. So what happened? So what happened was is that she came to him and she told him that they were going to start eating and she tells him by the way if somebody gives you a loan and now they come to collect the loan are you going to be happy going to be sad? He has no clue what's going on. Obviously somebody's

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