Beki'im Bahalacha #7 - Day 28

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The opening of this shiur, in Rabbi David Elmaleh’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

And this other shame, >> [clears throat] >> we are doing Biki'in Be'er Ha'Lacha seven, day 28. If two people are eating together from one common bowl, and one stops to eat, and one stops eating from the the plate, to to um to drink or to grab a piece of bread, the other one stops until the second one is going to be ready. But if there are three people, they don't have the two don't have to wait for one. She taught the answer I'm kidding. And this is only true if they're all eating from the same plate in middle. But if each one has their own plate, then they do not have to stop for each other. do not have to stop for each other. And 271, >> [clears throat] >> our sages taught this in Berachot 47A, and Magan included it in Shulchan Aruch 172. Interrupting one's meal to wait for a colleague. When two people eat together from one common serving bowl, one must refrain from one must from taking from the bowl while his friend is drinking. As mentioned in this halacha, the Vush explains that this is necessary since the person drinking might spy his colleague taking drinking might spy his colleague taking from the serving bowl, become upset, and choke on his beverage. It does not appear that the Ber Yona agreed with this interpretation, however. He explained that it is necessary to wait while one's colleague is busy drinking or getting a piece of bread because this is proper etiquette. Meaning it's not because of spying or or afraid that the other guy might choke, rather it's because of it's proper manners. According to Accordingly, this halacha applies to other situations besides when one person is drinking. This is likewise the opinion of the

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1. 0:00And this other shame, >> [clears throat] >> we are doing Biki'in Be'er Ha'Lacha seven, day…
2. 0:34the other one stops until the second one is going to be ready. But if there…
3. 1:36drinking might spy his colleague taking from the serving bowl, become upset, and choke on his…
4. 2:07This is likewise the opinion of the Magen Avraham and the Mishna Berurah and the Kaf…
5. 3:08This is the ruling of the Kaf HaChaim Sofer and the Aruch HaShulchan. The halacha Berurah…
6. 4:09In the times of the Gemara, it was considered dangerous to drink even an even number…
7. 4:41exists. A number of acharonim agreed that we can be lenient about this in our times.…
8. 5:46>> But, it is not necessary to leave any portion in the serving bowl. That is…
9. 6:16Because of this, the Beit Chadash cited in the Kaf Hachaim Sofer recommended that a devout…
10. 7:18Therefore, whenever such a thing would be necessary, it is best to leave over a portion…

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