Victim or creator. Choose one #shorts #fyp #relatable #relationships

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The opening of this shiur, in Gedale Fenster’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

You need to decide. Do you I want to become a victim or do I want to become a co-creator? So, as long as we want to receive self-pity and we want people to feel sorry for us, we are receiving. If I become a victim, I will just absorb and absorb and emptiness and more chasing and more disappointments. As long as we are in a receiving state only for ourselves, our receiving is never going to get quenched. When we transform the story from the victim to the co-creator, you are now becoming a giver. If we want happiness, we need to mimic the creator. Why? Cuz he's a giver. The creator is merciful. We need

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