Stop hurting yourself for what they did #shorts #fyp #youtubeshorts #relationships

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The opening of this shiur, in Gedale Fenster’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

You're hurting yourselves for what other people did to you. It's like somebody scratching your car and then you taking your car and smashing it into the wall. Does that make any sense? It happens. Why? Because we are punishing ourselves instead of saying, "Why was I so bothered by that person? What needs to be healed in my life?" Instead of who did it? Anytime you look at an experience and you say, "This is an experience that I need to grow." Then you can expand. I'm going to start growing through pain. I'm going to start facing challenges cuz they're good for me. How do we build bigger? This relationship broke. What needs to be

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2. 0:30healed? Let's heal the inner child. Let's come back bigger. The difference is is I don't…

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