Truly understanding our Kids in Pain!!.mp4

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The opening of this shiur, in Avi Fishoff — TWiSTED Parenting’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

the concept is that Hashem does not expect a to to be judged the same as a healthy person who's walking so a child goes through a trauma any person goes through a trauma goes through a situation Hashem is a ra he's understanding and every person is sent down to earth and they have a different Mission somebody who is dyslexic is not meant to sit and learn that's cruelty that's cruel if we could fix it whatever we know that hm judges by effort we know that Hashem judges by effort Hashem doesn't expect every kid to get 100 on the test some kids they just sit there they don't even try and they just get a 100 other kids are going through trauma or they're dysfunctional or they're dyslexic they can't get the same mark it would be a cruel Hashem a cruel God to expect everybody to get the same Mark not only that Hashem rewards for of brings down that the for learning is on the so if you can go through a and you're not working very hard because you just naturally enjoy it and you listen and you could focus you get less than the one who is struggling to focus or the one with ADD or ADHD or LD or any kind of letters you want to put after his name or just going through a hard time he just lost a lot of money or he has bills and and he has digus he's not expected to perform like everybody else yes a person himself has to try and all of that that's true true but for us to judge other people by the standard of a healthy person is cruel it's cruel Hashem doesn't do that it's no question

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1. 0:01the concept is that Hashem does not expect a to to be judged the same as…
2. 3:45good you loved me and now I'm struggling and now you turn on me that trauma…
3. 8:00went to 11 in long but to us it falls very short of this our standards…
4. 11:43that the kids who jump out of our religion and our stuff they don't have a…
5. 15:50treatment method against Kish and against their Ste in and against well fight no problem but…
6. 19:31are we're not drug addicts we don't sell drugs that's not who we are we're not…
7. 23:46how to help them become healthier but the main thing is get past it when you…
8. 27:30him and it was predetermined that he would be a victim of terrible horrible abuse he…
9. 31:43is giving you the chance to have tens of extra every day by being you want…
10. 35:29happening to him it's like it's like Mish the same is saying oh I just lost…

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