LIKOVOD THE YURTZEIT: 169 Chinuch gems from the Nesivas Shalom ZY"A

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The opening of this shiur, in Avi Fishoff — TWiSTED Parenting’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

says the nasiva shalom is many people in their own eyes they consider themselves a really big mechanic but at the end of the day the children themselves will deny their expertise hashita is many times the Deep analysis and the concepts of their ideas of proper education were just merely according to their own Teva they had their own ideas that they came up with comfortably influenced by his own natural tendencies and its surrounding environments so we have to be careful that we don't develop ideas that are not proven and given to us by our godan next idea he talks about regular abuse at the outset of the educational process strict discipline may be necessary the educator or the parent may need to temporarily assume the role of a policeman enforcing compliance however this is not a part of the process called it is merely the means to create the proper climate for real education to take place he says that there are many people rabayam they come in and they say look at my classroom everybody sits straight and everybody's listening and right they're scared to move and this he says they're very good at preparing the climate for education but that is not education people think that's the end that's just the beginning that's the introduction nothing to do with foreign he says it is especially evil to hit a child I guess to punish a child out of anger because I'll say getting angry is equal to serving idols and how could you expect that right in the middle of serving to an idol you're bowing to the idol and now you're going to do and you can have impossible you can't serve Hashem while you're angry you can't have Seattle while you're angry and therefore you can't ever parent effectively a child with Hashem by

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1. 0:01says the nasiva shalom is many people in their own eyes they consider themselves a really…
2. 3:13take a video while they're hitting their kids and say you see how we hit calmly…
3. 6:28wrong a child who did zero would you give him a one no it's abusive so…
4. 9:42it's not going to work if a child thinks that my parent or the mechanic doesn't…
5. 13:12burst out the house is on fire the kid is on fire but if you're going…
6. 16:53what I'm going to be nice and warm and fuzzy and lovey we have to teach…
7. 20:07and therefore it is not bottle Islam it can never ever be extinguished what do we…
8. 23:19live your life you think by your levia they're going to be passing out shavers and…
9. 26:38if we realize that we are the son of Hashem and he's with us no matter…
10. 29:58when Hashem wanted to talk to Maisha he said go Adam and try him I don't…

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