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Rebbetzin Devorah Kigel--How to Find a Husband that is Perfect for YOU

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welcome to america's top rabbitsons may this class be for rafu shaleema farima bhatmasal and leotovia benhaya ashna i'm so excited to have on today's show robinson devorah kegel as a professional dating coach devorah kegel has helped close to 200 women get clarity in their dating life and marry their bashert she also has been teaching classes for women on judaism for close to 20 years she has her masters in french and lived in paris for two years before discovering torah judaism and becoming observant she and judaism and becoming observant she and her husband ruvain who is the campus director for emmett outreach hosts shabbat guests every week this was pre-coveted using humor and honesty deborah shares her the entertaining personal journey that led her to develop powerful tools to have the relationships you desire please tell us more about yourself and what you do first of all thanks vera we go back a long way and i'm really honored to be on your program i think it's great what you're doing thank you um so first and foremost i'm a wife and mom i do want to say that and that really is do want to say that and that really is as i tell my students all the time um my biggest accomplishment to raise healthy kids in our society is like the gold medal in the olympics so i really view that as my most important role even though i am doing a lot of other things now so um i often tell women one of my famous lines is that women can have it all just not all at the same time so when my kids were little i definitely took a very hands-on role with them i

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  1. 0:02welcome to america's top rabbitsons may this class be for rafu shaleema farima bhatmasal and leotovia
  2. 3:34not you know observant jews so i'm really i take off my rabbits and hat even
  3. 7:39progresses if he goes on a business trip for a week and a half and you're
  4. 11:15is arrogant so i was looking for someone who really was like a positive person even-tempered
  5. 14:48creatures than us gender wise my husband is russian as you know so there's a cultural
  6. 18:54he just do things his way and not paying attention to your needs these are things
  7. 22:27possible chance of attracting the mate that is really the best for them excellent question so
  8. 26:02they can set reasonable expectations for both themselves and also for the person that they're dating
  9. 29:39both step on each other so sometimes so i'm just letting you know that you stepped
  10. 33:17he leaves his phone at home you take your phone and have it on vibrate for

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