Definition of ourselves comes from our consistent actions

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The opening of this shiur, in Rabbi Yossi Bensoussan’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

about light ing the menorah for sliding the menorah so it says when you like the candy candles you gotta face all of the candles must stay the center one Center tender and you give them detailed instruction how to light the menorah is being shame whatever he was told to do he did yes instructions any good employee found instructions what's so special about that one saying around foreign I mean for us it's really irrelevant you know you want your kids to follow instructions so if they do follow instruction it's a big deal okay as a side note people think when the kids are rebellions you know they don't want to do stuff it's it's something is wrong with the child that means it's healthy because by Nature we want to do different most of the time we should listen a kid who listens every time every second every moment something is wrong because if he played his own Freedom his own space too you know I don't want to do it and living once in a while if he doesn't want to do it it's okay so don't do it you're not supposed to control our kids and to make sure they do what we want they found out that stubborn kids coming from stubborn parents building if you exists that you have to explain on time and you don't let them don't give them any break and no matter what it's going to sleep on time and you fight with them so what do you teach him uh I'm gonna be stubborn so what he's going to teach you I'm going to be also stubborn you have to let go and assignment so we ask him I want to bet when he light the candles

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7. 18:31just to make sure our kids looks good outside and people are talking the children of…
8. 21:50she brought the third guy and he was okay but you didn't listen to other instructions…
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