(52) TP TRAINING (09-2017)

What’s said in this shiur

The opening of this shiur, in Avi Fishoff — TWiSTED Parenting’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

this question is really not just about your son every person is going to have when you are doing TP or even if not you're going to have situations where your child is in a really bad mood because they feel that something is not working out in their lives okay so in your situation it is the the very important car show that is very important that he should have his car ready on time and he's weaking out because this thing that is so important to him is not going to happen on time it's going to happen right okay but he was screaming and yelling and pressured and for somebody else it's something else right if you notice our Kips are very not able to stay calm and they can't take any pressure and when things don't go their way they actually freak out and the reason is because if you have a wonderful life and something goes wrong in your life it's one thing they are in so much pain over everything that happened bad to them and a lot of them really went through stuff that is a trauma and abuse that is not

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1. 0:03this question is really not just about your son every person is going to have when…
2. 4:29understand that they're carrying so much and of course they're in a bad mood because they…
3. 9:19you just go to sleep why don't you just relax why don't you just forget the…
4. 13:35should we get him a job should we get him a job you can give him…
5. 17:59that their sibling forgot they know at 8 years old did he know he knew all…
6. 22:15did this with a smile you just see them float away they just stop confiding in…
7. 26:35yeah they all present as Defiance and I've worked with kids who I mean how many…
8. 30:53come up and you Uber it's different and everybody's looking at you what you looking at…
9. 35:02therapists and they had a secret the ones that were abused or the ones that were…
10. 39:15judging and stop fixing and stop thinking just feel right just feel I feel for you…

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