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(369) Why be so extreme?

2.3K views · May 29, 2019

Avi Fishoff — TWiSTED Parenting

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[Music] let's pass our over just the basics of what we're trying to do here and a lot of people ask me how come we have to be so extreme why are we so extreme what I uncovered is that when a child is going through pain in their brain which is our Kipps who are in pain they're also Kipps kids in progress that's true but most of them have a lot of pain and the pain is done by other people that hurt them and in today's door I don't know about and in today's door I don't know about previous generations before the Holocaust I don't know but between the Holocaust and 20 years ago we didn't have this amount of people that were falling apart committing suicide you know on tremendous amount of of drugs and and you know we just didn't have this and now we have tens and thousands of kids who are on drugs and numbing their pain and it's crazy what I discovered is different than what the discovered is different than what the rest of the world preaches what I discovered is the key Lou in this human there's a piece missing and the only way to heal them is I accept you fully why is that because they're so sensitive these souls are so sensitive that on top of them being knocked off of the life that they would have had by other people or by things beyond their control they now are

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  1. 0:00[Music] let's pass our over just the basics of what we're trying to do here and
  2. 2:35cruel because of course we didn't want that you also didn't want that you also didn't
  3. 5:08to show up to a therapy session which is already not our category because our kids
  4. 8:44usually if you're on this level of you this kind and you decide to drop out
  5. 11:19religion but I don't know who knows a guy went off the derrick at 60 years
  6. 14:23and abuse it just stopped working so a lot of the world they said okay I
  7. 16:59do me a favor go around that way I need to be tolerated the molester needs
  8. 19:34your kid out of learning disability just write a book what happens to kids with learning
  9. 22:39message we're not supposed to be judging I'll talk then it's kuvira I beg you don't
  10. 25:46because the story was done by somebody else and if you had a video camera if

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