Unlock the Power of Adaptation: A Game-Changer in Understanding Trauma!

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The opening of this shiur, in Avi Fishoff — TWiSTED Parenting’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

That's adaption. That's all adaption. When you buy into adaption and understand fore what the adaption is for, everyone comes down. They come back online. It's crazy. It's just crazy how powerful it is. And that's better if I would say good. This is the highness of the whole keshi. This is the assad. This is what we're teaching all the time. How to of course there's details, a million details in this which we'll come to. The I want the to understand the a question of oh adaption kabble no adapting is when I will do something I'm so stuck. Adaption would be like um uh if I'm traumatized from learning I'll drop out of yeshiva. I've adapted not to be traumatized every day. So, I drop out. Dropping out isn't yet against God and Tyra and and and mitzvah. It's just a statement. I can't be in yeshiva where every day I'm made to feel like I'm worthless. I'm adapting. It's it's you understand. Is there a word in Yiddish that describes that? Is there a way of saying it in Yiddish? adapting. Okay. Adaption. Right. I'm changing my behavior. Not Yeah. Not because not because I haven't come to a conclusion. It's you're evil and everything's evil and I all I know is one thing. I can't be here. And if I'm here, I'm going to die. I feel like I want to kill myself. I really feel I want to kill myself. So by dropping out of yeshiva I don't want to kill myself and that that's the amazing thing when we understand it instead of first thing is to try and get him back in

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1. 0:00That's adaption. That's all adaption. When you buy into adaption and understand fore what the adaption…
2. 5:52not saying what they're doing is mut we're not going so far in you understand. But…
3. 12:15resemble an aspect of the original trauma. I'm sorry, it's a big mouthful. Let me just…
4. 18:46Notice the red parts of the healthy brain. That's the electric electricity in the brain. In…
5. 25:45would you agree? I've been pretty successful and I've never ever approved of a child's behavior.…
6. 32:00had in Kesha numerous parents who never lost children whose children died. So it's a very…
7. 38:43amazing. Now I have to say with all this there is no such thing as 100%…
8. 45:16if we don't know this, we scream at them again and get angry and can them.…
9. 51:37Once you cop the sugia of adaption, if the father knows and you catch him doing…
10. 58:06They they hugged together and cried together. That boy ended up in the miriam is a…

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