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Tidy then, we just finished parshas shlach, the holy union of the miraglim. Where did it come about the holy union of the miraglim? Because they didn't learn from Miriam. The Torah Hakdoisha tells us Miriam spoke loshon hora on Moshe Rabbeinu. Velo yelchu mussar and they didn't take mussar from Miriam. Every day we have if the davening we say shais zecher es. One of them is zecher asher oso le Miriam bederech betzaischa mimitzrayim. Freig der heiliger rigash avoisem. Why in the world do we have to talk about Miriam and mention her name that she's the one who spoke loshon hora. If you want to bring out a point then you want to speak about loshon hora, just say not to talk loshon hora. But why do you have to mention Miriam's name? Zog der heiliger rigash avoisem because over here the Torah says everybody knows Miriam was a tzadeikis. Miriam was the one who saved Moshe Rabbeinu batzutzach ba'choitza merochek ledas mayeosa. And Miriam meant leshem shamayim. And the Torah is teaching us a lesson. Even when you're speaking leshem shamayim, even when you mean the enems biggest toiva, you have to watch and concede your words. Every word that you said and that was the tin on the miraglim. They also meant leshem shamayim. But leshem shamayim could bring down the best people around. I want to share with you such a great story. There was a Yid who lived in Europe and all in Europe there was the Kreitschmes. We had a liquor store and he had to go away on business. So he called in his daughter and he told his

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  1. 0:08Tidy then, we just finished parshas shlach, the holy union of the miraglim. Where did it…
  2. 0:40talk about Miriam and mention her name that she's the one who spoke loshon hora. If…
  3. 1:10lesson. Even when you're speaking leshem shamayim, even when you mean the enems biggest toiva, you…
  4. 1:40daughter, "I want you to watch the liquor store for a couple days." After a couple…
  5. 2:10>> [music] >> Should I stay in the town? Finally, he found at the end of…
  6. 2:40eyes up to the Shamayim, and she said, "Ribbono shel Olam, you know the truth. You…
  7. 3:11his name in the teshuvos, he signs her Olov, Yechiel ben Reb Aaron the Shmasser. And…
  8. 3:42"Rabbeinu, what should we do by the matzos? What should be the right way? What's the…
  9. 4:12that when we daven today, Aibishter, that Aibishter listen to our tefilos, and your children will…

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