KiPs don't need parentING - they need PARENTS!

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The opening of this shiur, in Avi Fishoff — TWiSTED Parenting’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

The truth is when you start this Sugya, you start this Parsha, you start working with kids on the street or your own kids, it starts out it really looks like like they're they're horrible, they're terrible. And I'm doing this so long and we hear what you just said and what what hundreds of parents have said when we give the medicine and and I think to myself like I I I I don't come to their to their to their toenails. I don't come to to I've never changed in my life changed in my life the way these the way these neshamos change. They get thrown into Gehennam. Their world is Gehennam. It's not that they're having a good time. They get thrown into Gehennam but our so you value up in the sky. They don't know anything right, left, up, down. They don't know anything. And then you look at them when they're nurtured. Right? And we don't get confused by what we're hearing from other people. You have to do this, you have to do that. When they're nurtured and you start hearing their stories of strength hearing their stories of strength of things that they've done I managed to think to myself like these are our strongest neshamos and still today there are people living in the dark ages throwing them away as if they're as if a neshama is cheap. Besides for the and what they are besides for that they're just wrong. They just don't know the Sugya. They just don't know these kids. When they're nurtured and they're loved without pressure because pressure control hurts them and you just nurture

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