9241 LESSONS FROM: MARAN SAAR HATORAH HARAV CHAIM KANIEVSKY ZY"A

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The opening of this shiur, in Avi Fishoff — TWiSTED Parenting’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

[Music] there are so many people who have spoken about him but for us in this room and for parents who are struggling with issues and way out of connect issues he left us a lot of information so i just want to share some of the things that i know about that he said that we can keep with us in minhas taida tara number 259 he said there is no heter to embarrass or to degrade a child all the rules of being admired apply to our relationship with children no hatter to shame or insult a child and he issued an instruction that the concept of not shaming children must be a central topic of educational speeches to parents and educators this is very interesting because for some reason parents and teachers some parents and some teachers sometimes think that a child is a kid so you can embarrass him you can do things let's say for enoch you can do kind of in front of other people but you're not allowed to even if you have to do some kind of intervention on the child but you have the right to embarrass him in front of the siblings he has feelings and a child's feelings are human beings feelings part of being a child is he's going to grow up and if his feelings are damaged he's going to be a damaged adult so we have to remember this there's a lot of kind of a lot of different ways of doing but hurting a child in any way is not part of hana not for parents and not from him at the 10th general meeting of shvat 5776 when marin was asked how should one deal with bhakram who are far from being involved in learning and he answered parents must daven and continue to daven and the mechanic ii must daven for them

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