(9378) Message to extended families

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The opening of this shiur, in Avi Fishoff — TWiSTED Parenting’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

[Music] some parents come to me when they're not dealing with a henna issue dealing with crisis and that is the first super important thing to always keep in mind when you're dealing with a sick person or a crisis or somebody different even if it's not sick whatever it is all regular ideas what should be what we normally do what we normally say what we normally guide goes out the window we do normally guide goes out the window we do this naturally when when a child is physically ill God forbid a child has a sickness sickness they're in the hospital nobody says oh she didn't say please she didn't say thank you she's not dress properly she's not behaving properly everybody says hang on she's going through a terribly hard time we're going to tolerate because that's not who she really is she's gonna get better you want to teach lessons after she's better you could teach as many lessons as you want but when she's going through a hard time through a hard time so now I deal with parents when the kids are going through a hard time do we all recognize just by raising your hand that is going through a really hard time and don't feel pressure if you don't feel that way or if you want to abstain or you feel no okay now people go through a hard time look like they're angry look like they're spoiled look like they're getting away with murder look like they don't care look like they're disrespectful we have kids cursing we have kids doing terrible

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1. 0:00[Music] some parents come to me when they're not dealing with a henna issue dealing with…
2. 4:38something changed correct just give me an amen so if we're going to go back like…
3. 9:47teach somebody in pain all that'll happen is delete you're out of my contacts how many…
4. 14:57he starts being on your side foreign not enough and then he kills all of the…
5. 20:16believe me you don't want kids you want Disney World we'll go to Disney World one…
6. 25:22there for her and to be proud of her and it's a little embarrassing because your…
7. 30:28tough I begged him I said I think I could help you but you're gonna have…
8. 35:37it's not just money if somebody needs money and you ignore them you're over allowed if…
9. 40:49and he would have been right what am I should have been to do would we…
10. 45:54it's going to be a bad influence and instead of being I'm admin a science they…

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