Curb your Expectation with Rabbi Yossi Bensoussan

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The opening of this shiur, in Rabbi Yossi Bensoussan’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

[Music] hey guys time and time again i keep running into the same issue and we could do this with relationships we could do this um as far as marriage goes but it's really any relationship honestly if you have a difficult relationship in your life if you have a great relationship in your life that has seen difficulties or that is currently going through difficulties or has that one aspect or one avenue that you always just keep hitting that brick wall on personally these are the questions that i keep on getting and the answer however it might seem simple is so powerful when properly applied so someone's sitting there they have a person that they love their person that they care about and it's so difficult to get along with that person usually a lot of times it can be an adult child and an adult parent but husband and wife always this this comes into and the idea is is that we need to start lowering or really negating our

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1. 0:00[Music] hey guys time and time again i keep running into the same issue and we…
2. 0:33these are the questions that i keep on getting and the answer however it might seem…
3. 1:06expectations of people we have these preconceived notions of what it means to be x to…
4. 1:39to hit if we were to move the expectation remove the expectation we'd be left with…
5. 2:10expect them to be great in the way that they are great not in the way…

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