Deep understanding of: "Kids in Crisis" and the TRUE LIFE SAVING ROLE OF PARENTS (69)

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The opening of this shiur, in Avi Fishoff — TWiSTED Parenting’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

One of the most difficult things and we have a lot of difficult things and and I want everybody to think about this. Don't listen to the story just pertaining to this one girl. Think about the different things that your kids are doing in their lives, okay? That are dysfunctional. And I want you to try to apply this to your kids. Okay? The first thing that happens when our kids are doing things that we don't do, whether it's us or dysfunctional, we right away cringe and we right away think that this thing is bad, right? Right? And we don't understand why you're doing this. Why are you eating? Why shabas? What what are you eating? Why shabas? What what does it do for you? And tattoos is particularly difficult for us. And I wish we were all so holy that that the bothered us. It's not really the because I have parents who cry much more over a tattoo than a shabas. And Shabas is much bigger. We have parents crying more when their kids put on jeans than in Shabas. So, it's not really just about the fact that it's a vera, which it is, and it bothers us and all of that, but there's much more. It's permanent. >> It's permanent.

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1. 0:00One of the most difficult things and we have a lot of difficult things and and…
2. 4:07of us want to come back in the next Google as any of these kids. And…
3. 8:10therefore we have to stop them and they're going to ruin the other kids and we…
4. 12:15said if somebody doesn't conform you got to throw them out of the house >> think…
5. 16:51wants a tattoo. You say, "If you feel that you need it, I trust you. You…
6. 20:57even gaim outside in the winter are more sneick than our kids. Right. So true. Gam…
7. 25:03clear anusen mameish clear a lot of people are but I don't I I'm not here…
8. 29:38skeletons and and swords and stuff. We had a kid that the father said something to…
9. 33:47Just realize that you gave birth to a sadic. You gave birth to ais and somewhere…
10. 37:55than 100 times more than they say when they're eight when they're sick. I'm talking about…

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