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The opening of this shiur, in Avi Fishoff — TWiSTED Parenting’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

says, "Many people in their own eyes, they consider themselves a really big mechan. But at the end of the day, the children themselves will deny their expertise. Many times the deep analysis and the concepts of their ideas of proper education were just merely according to their own tea. They had their own ideas that they came up with comfortably influenced by his own natural tendencies and his surrounding environments. So we have to be careful that we don't develop ideas that are not proven and given to us by our next idea he talks about regular at the outset of the educational process strict discipline may be necessary. The educator or the parent may need to temporarily assume the role of a policeman enforcing compliance. However, this is not a part of the process called it is merely the means to create the proper climate for real education to take place. He says that there are many people ram they come in and they say look at my classroom everybody sits straight and everybody is listening and right they're scared to move and this he right they're scared to move and this he says they're very good at preparing the climate for education but that is not education people think that's the end that's just the beginning that's the introduction nothing to do with He says it is especially evil to hit a

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1. 0:01says, "Many people in their own eyes, they consider themselves a really big mechan. But at…
2. 3:17and say you see how we hit calmly without any very very difficult to do. Most…
3. 6:58It's abuse. You are treating him this way merely because you are stronger than he is.…
4. 10:02and he doesn't know and understand my situation, who I am and my feelings, you lose…
5. 13:40you got to get hold of your own self, of your own. Everybody says get the…
6. 16:46problem the corruption corruption that's growing inside of him. What do we normally naturally do to…
7. 20:32when we were in the we were slaves. We're at the bottom of the world spiritually…
8. 23:40you forever. That's not an incentive to sin. It's an incentive to do our best. That's…
9. 27:16that you never leave me. I know that you leave. You're with me everywhere. Even this…
10. 30:29goes to I thought you don't go to Hashem under normal circumstances I don't go to…

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