Protecting Victims: The Truth About Abuse Denial #shorts

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The opening of this shiur, in Amudim’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

In a way, he's worse than the abuser. >> Meaning if you ask any godel in the world today, rav, rebel, rosh yeshiva, mekubal, is sexual abuse a thing? They're all going to say yes. No, they all will, they will, yeah. >> if you say to them, "Do you hear what Yankel did?" No, Yankel would never do it. Why? So, at the end of the day, it's worse than denial. At least when they were in denial, they were they were they were in denial. They were they didn't know. They weren't. Now, there's no excuse. You know it exists. >> This one's They're actually fighting you by protecting the abuser. >> I ever had in this industry, unfortunately, was when a victim went to a rav on their own. So, the rav right away said, "No, the this is the victim." Called me after they went to the rav. I went back to the rav with the victim and with and with the parents. And the rav said, "Listen, we can't believe aid echad." All of a

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1. 0:00In a way, he's worse than the abuser. >> Meaning if you ask any godel in…
2. 0:30Now, there's no excuse. You know it exists. >> This one's They're actually fighting you by…
3. 1:00sudden, by the way, everybody becomes the biggest talmid chacham and bakki b'shas poskim and tak.…
4. 1:32"By the way, you made a psak. When there's two people, the I said, "First of…
5. 2:04Why? Because one victim's enough to get a guy into trouble. Two is going to make…
6. 2:37And yes, this was the rav who went to them and said, "You have to stop…

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