The Secret to Fearless Parenting

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The opening of this shiur, in Amudim’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

A lot of parenting nowadays has become just finding out what our kids are up to. Just finding out what they're doing wrong. And then I know you don't know anything. You know the worst thing this kid did that week. That doesn't mean you know anything. For the parent to create that space, they also need to have a relationship in order to allow that space. And no matter how many parents I work with, no matter how much I see in my own parenting, the child that I have a deeper relationship with, I am less worried about. I am less scared about. Anytime I get the school call and say, "Oh, they got into a fight or they got into this." I'm not as worried. I'm not as afraid about the kid that I have a

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1. 0:00A lot of parenting nowadays has become just finding out what our kids are up to.…
2. 0:30relationship with cuz I know that kid. It's not as scary. It's not as worrisome. How…
3. 1:00hanging out, having fun, being around that kid you as a parent already have an in.…

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