Dr. Tamar Perlman Teaches Us How to Effectively Parent Teenagers

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The opening of this shiur, in America's Top Rebbetzins’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

brides of different backgrounds the laws and perspectives of a jewish marriage thank you so so much for being here please tell us more about yourself and what you do it is such a pleasure to be here and i think that what i do i'm very very much so meets the vision and the um and the investment that you make which is which is bringing and trying to bring light and healing and understanding and comfort to jewish women around the world comfort to jewish women around the world i remember actually when i was in gra when i was in college actually not in grad school yet one of my great professors i learned a lot from him i remember he was making a point about you know about the professionalism of a psychologist he was one of my psychology professors and um and i really learned a lot from him but he had this distinction where he said psychology is a skill um if you want to help people become a um if you want to help people become a repetition and i remember at that moment thinking i want to become a psychologist robertson and i would say this is the first time that i am um technically referred to as a robertson and something about it tickles me in that you know i'm not really a robinson however i would love to continue to try to be one in the idea of helping women that's so beautiful wow it is really really beautiful i know we're going to help the topic that we're

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1. 0:32brides of different backgrounds the laws and perspectives of a jewish marriage thank you so so…
2. 4:05and that transition is physical at the time it is mostly extremely physical right and and…
3. 7:41certain monsters god forbid we we can't protect anyone from but he's too young to know…
4. 11:15it makes us look at ourselves more honestly and it's uncomfortable and then sometimes we turn…
5. 14:50but at the same time they see that there is something in you that also is…
6. 18:54[Laughter] and yes it makes us kind of feel insecure and and and um guilty and…
7. 22:30our answer is actually the right ones is this actually what's what's happening the third piece…
8. 26:05anymore work with young adolescents in my practice i i work mostly with older adolescents young…
9. 29:43and definitely saying things like you don't tell me anything just will shut them down because…
10. 33:14orthodox high school and there was this one elective that you know um a jewish class…

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