Rabbi Benzion Klatzko: Shidduchim - Chizuk for Older Singles

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The opening of this shiur, in Rabbi Benzion Klatzko’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

uh doing your A for Yer and um when I was asked to come down and speak about shim and especially the struggles that that um that we are having that you are having that we are having because I have kids in shim as well and uh not they're younger but you know I'm already beginning to see where the struggles could be um it's it is an inion that's very close to my heart and I I wanted to very close to my heart and I I wanted to say yes and I did say yes and um there are dangers in speaking about uh part of the dangers is becoming very cliche and telling you what you already know and what you don't want to hear because you already heard it so many times and um like duh you think you think I don't know that you think I don't know I'm supposed to D you think I don't know I'm supposed to be open-minded like there's very little that anyone could stand up here and tell you that you haven't heard heard and haven't thought about as haven't thought about as well so so I was thinking like what would I want to hear I I didn't have I had other newers in life but the first girl I met I'm married like I was was it I was her first guy and I was it you know um but we work with SH we had the the shabas which was supposed to be a small shabas cuz I just got back from out of town but our small shabas have a way becoming not small and uh it wasn't huge

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