Why He Switches Off with Rabbi Benzion Klatzko (Shalom Bayis Tips)

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The opening of this shiur, in Rabbi Benzion Klatzko’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

Welcome to Ladies Talk Show. This is your host Leah Richeimer. We are here with Shalom Bayis Perspectives and we are so fortunate to have a very wise special special Rabbi, Rabbi Benzion Klatzko. Thank you. Welcome to Welcome to Ladies Talk Show. >> My pleasure. Thank you for having me. >> Yeah, thanks for being here. So, we dive in very deep. You should just know that Rabbi Klatzko, this is just kind of blows me away. He has 60 guests for Shabbos every week. It used to be double Shabbos every week. It used to be double that whatever now 60 and his wife starts cooking on Sunday. I mean, it's just Anyway, we're really really a pleasure to have you and and and Hashem should continue to give you a lot of to do this great work. >> Amen. >> Amen. Amen. Okay, we're going to just go right in. What are some common marriage misconceptions that people have? >> I think one of the most common misconceptions is that is that that they always have to feel madly in love with each other. And if they don't, they feel a little bit bad about it. Like, why you know I saw in the movies that people are looking happy and there's romantically inclined and and why don't I feel like that? I'm married maybe am I married too long? Does that disappear? I don't even remember when we ever had that or if we had that, it was so short

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