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We have to understand, sometimes we look at parents like they're Moshe Rabbeinu and they should get everything right. Parents are just kids that got older. They just got to kept on getting older. Right? And also have a lot of responsibility and sometimes they get it right, sometimes they get it wrong. But when you see your sibling getting treated with this like super duper stuff, a part of you in your brain is going to be like, I'm jealous. Like, I also want that. I also want to my own helicopter. Any of you guys here No, no helicopters? >> Not yet. >> Not yet. It's coming. Right? I also want my own helicopter. I also want a stretch limo to pick me up every time I I do something or I come back from somewhere. Why don't I get it? We have to understand, it's medicine. Like that's what we said before. It's medicine. We look at it as medicine. And because somebody's not performing well, so the first job is if someone is a little bit not doing well, we push them and we motivate them and we do all kinds of stuff to get them to perform. But once someone drops out, I'm out. That's a whole different type of
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- 0:01We have to understand, sometimes we look at parents like they're Moshe Rabbeinu and they should…
- 0:31>> Not yet. >> Not yet. It's coming. Right? I also want my own helicopter. I…
- 1:02treatment. I'll give you an example. Right? So there's a difference between a sibling, a child,…
- 1:32parents. Sometimes they're nice, sometimes they say no. May I raise your hand? Do your parents…
- 2:02No knows. You know what that means? It means you're normal. Cuz as kids we all…
- 2:32it's not normal. It's called life saving. It's a whole different approach. We're trying to save…
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